Getting ChoosyTriggered AF Podcast

Getting Choosy

“Your boyfriend is keeping you from your husband sis!”

In this episode, Alechia and Dani want you to start dating well AF. And for that to happen, it’s time to get choosy!

Now we aren’t talking about out-of-this-world expectations or superficial and unrealistic standards. In this episode, your Triggered hosts ask you to get intentional and dive into what it takes to get the partner you desire and know you have the power to do so.So lean in and take notes. It’s time to get clear on what you want and stand in the power to get it!


  • Is there a time limit on how long it takes to get married?
  • How and when do you communicate your desires in a relationship?
  • Being vocal versus thirsty
  • What does it really mean to get choosy?
  • Get clear on your must-haves, nice-to-haves, and non-negotiables
  • “If he wants to, he will”


“I don't believe in the float. I float in water, not in my relationships.”

“If you want to be married, if you want a serious, committed relationship, don't be afraid to vocalize that for fear of losing something that you don't have anyways.”

“You have to get clear. Clarity informs your decisions, and your decisions inform your choices. And that is how you get what you want, ultimately.”


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I appreciate the rawness and transparency. Your authenticity is much needed and appreciated. It’s good to acknowledge our triggers and talk them through. Absolutely love it!!!

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Just wow! I’ve listened to every episode and each one has helped me in some way. I’m really clear on what it is I want and what it is I need now.

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Two beautiful and uber intelligent young women discussing various topics that are extremely relevant for today? I’m in!!! I was not disappointed and I’m sure you won’t be either.

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