How to Stop Self Sabotaging When DatingTriggered AF Podcast

How to Stop Self Sabotaging When Dating

In the “How to Stop Self-Sabotaging When Dating” episode, Triggered AF hosts, Alechia & Dani get honest about all the ways in which we sabotage ourselves when we’re dating. If you want to attract better partners you’ll want to get super clear about what works for you. From there, it’s crucial to work on the parts of you that don’t yet believe you deserve what you want so you sabotage yourself. You set the standard and boundaries for the way people handle you. Treat yourself so well that anytime you’re treated contrary to what is your norm or standard, you can course correct. You’ll be waiting a long time hoping for others to validate your importance in the world. So, first start with you! Listen in now for a little taste of what’s included in the DWAF course and use these tools to date well and live even better.

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Be intentional with how you treat and love yourself.

Set the standard for how people treat you.

Identify what you love about yourself and work on ways to show self-appreciation.

Learn to be vulnerable about your journey and tell yourself the truth.


“If you do not believe that you are worthy of good things, you begin to attract things and people that do not treat you well.”

“Replace negative self-talk with positivity.”

“Learn yourself so that you can choose your partner and not settle for being chosen.”

“Set boundaries and standards that you are able to maintain as well.”


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Dani Bourdeau

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I absolutely love this show. The topics are very thought provoking and inspiring. After each episode I walked away with a deep question to self-examine and make an effort to do the work. Keep shining ladies. I am so proud 😌👑❤️

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I loved Dani views of this topic because I grew up in church also , but as an adult I figured out for myself that we truly should have a relationship with God and I listen to Mike Todd a preacher from Tulsa and he also states same thing. Belief and relationship with God doesn’t require rituals or any of that. I don’t let anything that I’ve seen in the church sway me from my belief in God. I believe in God not man or a religion. God does want us to fellowship with others but God is everywhere! I turn on my worship music all the time at home, in the car etc. it doesn’t require us to be in church because we can have church anywhere

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Just wow! I’ve listened to every episode and each one has helped me in some way. I’m really clear on what it is I want and what it is I need now.

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I think 🤔 we need to listen to what these women have to say. I was very impressed with the episodes and hope to hear many more.

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