Derek J, is known for slaying hair for queens on The Real Housewives of Atlanta and his gracious opinion on fashion queens on BRAVO TV. But after decades of paving the way for the fashion & beauty culture he learned quickly that no matter where you're at in life, the Black Gay Experience can be one that holds you back, hurts you, and leaves you hanging out to dry.

From true trauma to family feuds the black gay male still struggles to be understood and accepted. From decades of being in the entertainment industry he found that there is no real representation and is bring you the GAY LIKE ME podcast to change that.